Like it’s instinct, if I love you those will be the last words you hear from me when we part ways. God forbid something happens on either end, I want words of affirmation and love to be our last exchange. If you don’t want to be loved I’m not the friend for you.
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I say this to a”everyone that I’m close to if they were together I’d just say love you both & keep it moving. Neither me nor him saw a problem with it, he found the whole situation stressful as did I hence why we called the friendship. If you think this isn’t controlling, u wrong
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I just truly do not believe in walking into a relationship and policing someone’s friendships to the point where both your partner and their friend are uncomfortable. I’ve not yet seen a logical argument for why you can’t say love you to your friend in a relationship.
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Okay my bad should have added more context but it was with all girls. No calls after 6pm, not allowed to follow girls on insta. By the time we got to love you I had enough & bro was stresssed. Boundaries I’m here for but this is controlling & not healthy.
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Probably coz you're so fine
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I don’t think that’s the case though. My exes have always had female friends and it’s never bothered me
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Mmmm this can be argued...I get what your saving and you are also grown and you know you are overstepped and should’ve respected your friends relationship
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I respected my friends relationship. I offered to make an effort to get to know her, take her out for lunch etc but like I said, it’s instinct. Whoever it is on the other end of the phone, it’s always love you bye. Been that way for years.
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Also should respect what people have set in their own relationship. The boundaries and expectations within that aren’t for anyone else to comment on, overstep or dictate. Just because you’d be okay with it and see no issue in it doesn’t mean it’s right for them.
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Whilst I hear you. My friend and I didn’t have a problem with me saying “love you bro” before I hung up. There comes a point where you have to sit down and ask yourself if you’re being reasonable.
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