He treated me like I was being irrational, glanced over the text and said "that's incorrect". He continued to refuse to show this imaginary law he was citing and threatened to call the cops. I told him he should absolutely call the cops. Please do. He then said I need to leave.
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The LGBTQ liaison's first question after introducing themselves was: "Hi Charlotte, may I ask for your pronouns?" They took statements, gave my friends and I space to process this (mostly my friends trying to offer humor and hugs), and fully debriefed me on my rights.
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On Monday, I will begin pursuing all available legal options against
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A lot of people--complete strangers--walked out of
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One woman named Mystic, a Cirque du Soleil dancer from Russia, came up to me, took my face in her hands and said: "The is the kind of bullshit Putin does. You are so beautiful. You are gorgeous." She gave me a hug and then did a standing split to make me laugh.
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I am quite grateful for my friends, the officers at
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I think it's also worth noting that things might have gone very differently if I were not white, aware of the law, and connected to people who can help. My privilege helped me in this situation. Transgender people, esp. people of color, without my privilege are not so fortunate.
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And now, I have a bachelorette weekend to get back to and celebrate with my friends. This is my first bachelorette shindig, and I'm not going to let the transphobic staff of
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BTW: if you're looking for an easy way to help, support
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UPDATE: Today, I filed a formal discrimination complaint with the D.C. Office of Human Rights and spoke with several lawyers about what justice would look like in this situation. I greatly appreciate everyone's support, and I'll continue to keep you updated on the resolution.
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UPDATE: I haven't personally confirmed this, but according to reporting by a journalist at
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Also: I've been in contact with several employees at Cuba Libre, and we're making plans to all go out to dinner together soon to celebrate being human beings who respect each other.
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In a time when it seems like only negative news about police departments get attention, I'm very pleased to hear this part of your story. It sounds like the
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Outstanding. Thank God for the LGBTQ liaison units with
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Press citizen arrest charges for assault and battery on the person who went physical. No legal right to coerce physically.
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LOL they sent you a "LGBTQ liaison unit"? How many levels of Clownworld are we on here?
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When you think you’re reading the alt right fanfic account but it’s just real life
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Why am I just now seeing this??Charlotte, I’m so sorry the night was ruined for you. I’m so glad you know your rights and we’re unafraid to speak them. Also, props to DC Police for being a model of how to treat their citizens!
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