christine

showing up hot is totally a burden and one that requires effort and energy. sometimes it is just not worth it as I am drained and not energized by the attention. Also seems to draw negative attention from women :(https://twitter.com/visakanv/status/1494904269530546176 …

Hotness is a burden because it’s a source of power and with great power comes great responsibility and responsibility is a burden for a lot of folk. But responsibility as a FREEDOM to respond hits different.

ohh I like where you’re going with this. like, you now have the freedom to influence social dynamics with the attention provided you?

And the freedom to get bogged down by peoples expectations of how you should use your hotness. Or your OWN expectations of how it should be used. But also the freedom to just experience it. Soooo many choices and not all of them fun.

Then the game becomes a discernment game. How do I want to choose to experience my own hotness and is there a way to make the choosing share the essence of the hotness itself?

tell me more how do you share essence of hotness? For me I get a small ego boost and then it pretty much feels like I get stage fright

If we follow the metaphor of hotness as being on a stage, I suppose you are saying we can choose to perform in any way we like, and even try to make audience feel magical as well ?