showing up hot is totally a burden and one that requires effort and energy. sometimes it is just not worth it as I am drained and not energized by the attention. Also seems to draw negative attention from women :(https://twitter.com/visakanv/status/1494904269530546176 …
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Replying to @christineist
Hotness is a burden because it’s a source of power and with great power comes great responsibility and responsibility is a burden for a lot of folk. But responsibility as a FREEDOM to respond hits different.
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Replying to @wendell_britt
ohh I like where you’re going with this. like, you now have the freedom to influence social dynamics with the attention provided you?
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Replying to @christineist
And the freedom to get bogged down by peoples expectations of how you should use your hotness. Or your OWN expectations of how it should be used. But also the freedom to just experience it. Soooo many choices and not all of them fun.


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Replying to @wendell_britt @christineist
Then the game becomes a discernment game. How do I want to choose to experience my own hotness and is there a way to make the choosing share the essence of the hotness itself?
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Replying to @wendell_britt
tell me more
how do you share essence of hotness? For me I get a small ego boost and then it pretty much feels like I get stage fright2 replies 0 retweets 0 likes -
Replying to @christineist
Like when I make a choice how can I choose to be hot in a way that’s also hot? Cause the choice is an action and all actions can have hotness energy applied to them. Choosing to be hot because I want to prove something isn’t a hot choice even if I end up being hot.
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Omg I love this breakdown of hotness into the choice + effect!!!! Wow wow this is great way to start my day
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