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    1. christine‏ @christineist Jan 29

      are they charismatic or are they narcissistic and manipulative🤨

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    2. christine‏ @christineist Jan 29

      Are they self resonant & integrated or are they posturing

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    3. christine‏ @christineist Jan 29

      christine Retweeted jamie ryan

      from my morning readhttps://twitter.com/self_beware/status/1480601269211328513 …

      christine added,

      jamie ryan @self_beware
      I wrote about the games you lose by playing this one has generated the most response so far. h/t @Aella_Girl for her excellent frame control essay https://depatterning.substack.com/p/mind-games 
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    4. christine‏ @christineist Jan 29

      Related: concept of frame controlhttps://knowingless.com/2021/11/27/frame-control/ …

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    5. christine‏ @christineist Jan 29

      Ugh thinking back to past relationship where I was told I had to deal with mean jokes because people worthy of respect can deal with his brand of humor and changing his jokes for me would be treating me with less respect, and he refused to treat me with less respectpic.twitter.com/1OzTBhcurS

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    6. christine‏ @christineist Jan 29

      christine Retweeted Dan Nouement

      Looking at it from perspective of drama triangle it went from persecutor (you are too sensitive) to rescuer (I’ll save you from yourself and I won’t treat you with less respect)https://twitter.com/nomanautomata/status/1487124630712193024 …

      christine added,

      Dan Nouement @nomanautomata
      Replying to @VividVoid_
      The drama triangle https://leadershiptribe.com/blog/the-drama-triangle-explained#:~:text=The%20Drama%20Triangle%20was%20first,and%20ineffective%20response%20to%20conflict ….
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    7. christine‏ @christineist Jan 29

      christine Retweeted Apertator

      Tying into another tweet from this morning.. I’m realizing this is all very nebulous and it’s easy to not realize you are being manipulative. Or it’s easy to want to be X and you it fake but don’t make it. And suddenly you are being called performative & bad & manipulativehttps://twitter.com/apertator/status/1487124240348364800 …

      christine added,

      Apertator @apertator
      Replying to @VividVoid_
      hmm so a person close to me recently wronged someone in a pretty egregious way and while I know them to be guilt-stricken, confused but not malicious, the message from the wronged party is that they are evil, irredeemable and deserving of public scapegoating
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    8. christine‏ @christineist Jan 29

      I guess where I’m ending up is, how do we have better ways to help people save face and safely retreat to being the non-manipulative, earnest and well intentioned people they are?

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    9. christine‏ @christineist Jan 29

      It’s totally understandable to 1) have aspirations for being a certain way (attractive, cool, etc) and 2) to feel extremely defensive upon being called out, and to not want to be seen as a bad person

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    10. christine‏ @christineist Jan 29

      Right now I’m not thinking about people who are deeply narcissistic/abusive, but rather your everyday friend who may tend to get lost in this direction because they are so charismatic people just get sucked into their frame

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      christine‏ @christineist Jan 29

      How to gently push back against their pull, and also how to call out behavior without an underlying accusation of “you are a bad person”?

      11:16 AM - 29 Jan 2022
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        1. christine‏ @christineist Jan 29

          A lot of this reminds of nonviolent communication & boundary setting https://g.co/kgs/YnnEhY  https://g.co/kgs/YyfP6i 

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        2. christine‏ @christineist Jan 29

          My go to methods: 1. Make sure the message “you are okay” is communicated. You are my friend, I’m not mad at you as a person, etc 2. Nonverbal boundaries: eye contact, slight irritability, distance, poker face, polite smile, just not engaging/not entering the flow of their pull

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