I don't know if there's a word for this, but one of the most manipulative and crazymaking things people do goes like this: 1. They wrong you 2. You become justifiably angry 3. They act like your anger has victimized them 4. Now you're the bad guy
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Replying to @VividVoid_
The drama triangle https://leadershiptribe.com/blog/the-drama-triangle-explained#:~:text=The%20Drama%20Triangle%20was%20first,and%20ineffective%20response%20to%20conflict ….
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Replying to @nomanautomata @VividVoid_
heres a course that spells out this triangle dynamic, common games, and how to deal with it. manipulative people will chase you around the triangle and it becomes very confusinghttps://www.linkedin.com/learning/persecutors-victims-and-rescuers-how-to-deal-with-psychological-games-players/the-three-positions?autoplay=true&trk=learning-course_tocItem&upsellOrderOrigin=default_guest_learning …
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for example: them (playing persecutor): ugh so typical of an engineer you: *call them out* them (playing victim): omg I was just joking! (switch to persecutor) you're kind of sensitive aren't you?
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