it is crazy how much cognition you end up sharing with a partner part of the reasons breakups and deaths lead to so much grief; on top of all the other sorrows, you're literally losing a piece of your cognitive infrastructure you can rebuild but it won't be the same shapehttps://twitter.com/atonal440/status/1255022599194673152 …
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some people spend the majority of their emotional capital on their primary partnerhttps://twitter.com/choosy_mom/status/1222292627732586496 …
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and breaking up can cause rapid/uncomfortable changes in emotional capital allocation similar in magnitude to switching schools or churcheshttps://twitter.com/choosy_mom/status/1222292633487200256 …
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"If someone is contacted less often than the defining rate for more than a few months, emotional closeness will inexorably decline to a level appropriate for the new contact rate"
This is why moving, graduate college, etc. suck so much—your entire graph recedes outward
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