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    1. chad donkey from shrek 2‏ @choosy_mom Feb 17
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      No matter how much we strive to represent ourselves and interpret each other accurately, we’re unavoidably limited to incomplete mental models of each otherhttps://twitter.com/choosy_mom/status/1226651994003099649 …

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      I think this is the beauty and tragedy of communication—no matter how precise you become, your expression will be lossy and interpreted in ways that are out of your control
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    2. chad donkey from shrek 2‏ @choosy_mom Feb 17
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      My model of you will differ from your model of yourself Your best friend’s model of you will differ from your worst enemy’s Your mom’s model of you will differ from your dad’s

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      chad donkey from shrek 2‏ @choosy_mom Feb 17
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      These models are informed by our fragmentary experiences with other people—and more importantly, our models are shaded by how we *perceive* those fragmentary experiences

      5:18 PM - 17 Feb 2020
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        2. chad donkey from shrek 2‏ @choosy_mom Feb 17
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          A common failure mode occurs when we subconsciously interpret people uncharitably, for example: - How they dress - Who they’re friends with - That story they told about something that happened at work - The micro-expression they made when you made that comment about their job

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        3. chad donkey from shrek 2‏ @choosy_mom Feb 17
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          Uncharitable judgments are a ‘quick and dirty’ way to create an in-group and generate status Executed correctly, communicating negative judgment is socially rewarded in larger group scenarioshttps://twitter.com/choosy_mom/status/1224489248696365056 …

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          it bums me out that disparaging other people is socially lucrative in most contexts
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        4. chad donkey from shrek 2‏ @choosy_mom Feb 17
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          Over time, this social feedback loop primes us to lean towards uncharitable interpretations Innocent jostling calcifies into general cynicism, and you end up in a society full of distrustful people with a weak/nonexistent sense of out-group empathy

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        5. chad donkey from shrek 2‏ @choosy_mom Feb 17
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          One solution is to widen your in-group umbrella to encompass as many people as possible This can be fruitful, but it also demands a lot of updating and definition-setting More importantly, it still requires you to establish an out-group

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        6. chad donkey from shrek 2‏ @choosy_mom Feb 17
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          chad donkey from shrek 2 Retweeted Visakan Veerasamy

          A better solution is to hack your charitable vs. uncharitable interpretive tendencies It’s difficult (maybe impossible) to turn off your negative-judgmental brain, but you can make a conscious effort to assume best intentions and love your out-grouphttps://twitter.com/visakanv/status/1223254341173121024 …

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          Visakan Veerasamy @visakanv
          be kind to your enemies it confuses the motherfuckers
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        7. chad donkey from shrek 2‏ @choosy_mom Feb 17
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          If you perform this good faith character long enough, you become an *actually* generous and thoughtful perceiver of other peoplehttps://twitter.com/choosy_mom/status/1221682547756691458 …

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          chad donkey from shrek 2 @choosy_mom
          especially irl, your identity is shaped profoundly by your mannerisms and verbal style new communication styles and habits can be difficult to pick up, but they are absolutely trainable—actors do this professionally https://twitter.com/choosy_mom/status/1221681102638567424?s=21 … https://twitter.com/choosy_mom/status/1221681102638567424 …
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        8. chad donkey from shrek 2‏ @choosy_mom Feb 17
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          This strategy pays dividends for rationalists, social climbers, AND empaths: 1. More realistic models of other people (we all interpret ourselves charitably) 2. Durable social status (not contingent on scorning an out-group) 3. Happy relationships (people like you—good vibes!)

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