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    1. ann-marie‏ @takecarecactus Feb 3
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      If one can talk about an "authentic self", then there's also an 'authentic relational self'. The two are related, but not the same I think having an "authentic self" doesn't mean you have an "authentic relational self"

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    2. chad donkey from shrek 2‏ @choosy_mom Feb 3
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      i’m fairly convinced that your ‘authentic self’ is just the version of yourself that you’re most accustomed to performing in the most contexts https://twitter.com/choosy_mom/status/1218978348069638146?s=21 …https://twitter.com/choosy_mom/status/1218978348069638146 …

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      chad donkey from shrek 2 @choosy_mom
      - identity is performance - “stop performing, be yourself” is an oxymoron and bad advice - you can build self-confidence by developing characters that you like and want to perform
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    3. illegibleparadise‏ @warmbott Feb 3
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      how does this reconcile how people feel they're not being themselves most of the time they're putting on their selves? technically they are performing a different self very often and my interpretation of what you said is that it should then be their authentic self. is that right?

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    4. chad donkey from shrek 2‏ @choosy_mom Feb 3
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      i think your ‘authentic self’ is often times not the one you perform for the greatest amount of time (e.g. i perform my ‘inauthentic’ professional self 40hrs a week) it’s also not necessarily the sub-identity you revert to when you’re alone/with friends (e.g. depressed people)

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    5. illegibleparadise‏ @warmbott Feb 3
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      got it i think it's the one that comes with the least resistance *internally* and is hence likely to be a strength/competitive advantage when fully developed

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      the least-resistance-self probably is the one that feels most authentic or true it also changes over time, and with effort you can direct the flow of those changes in an aspirational direction which is (i think) what we’re doing here on alt twitter https://twitter.com/choosy_mom/status/1220605998265552896?s=21 …https://twitter.com/choosy_mom/status/1220605998265552896 …

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      in fact, you can develop and perform a whole cast of characters, then transfer your favorite parts into your ‘main’! https://www.ribbonfarm.com/2020/01/23/being-your-selves-identity-rd-on-alt-twitter/ …
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        2. ann-marie‏ @takecarecactus Feb 4
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          agree with this least-resistance definition! so many possibilities underlying the whole idea of alt twitter- what's real/authentic for this context, and what about in another context? Just thinking about more room/spaces to play in makes me feel freer

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        3. illegibleparadise‏ @warmbott Feb 4
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          pick one and give it a shot. get weird with people you trust

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        1. illegibleparadise‏ @warmbott Feb 3
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          taking pieces we sense are underdeveloped and try to shape it to be presentable with social input, which ends up transforming the relationship we have with said piece

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