I think that a lot of social interaction is designed to avoid interaction of real energy between the two people. You both tacitly agree that you don't want to engage in a fundamental way and so follow the (reliable) rules that do that. But real interaction is where the money is.
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Here I am, demanding that you interact with me on a fundamental level. I can see why people would not like that, lol.
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chad donkey from shrek 2 Retweeted bayes base bays based
this kind of interaction must also be rooted in a certain level of familiarity and trust (which is impossible to establish in some contexts) it probably also makes sense to cultivate your ability to have good ‘superficial’ conversations as well https://twitter.com/bayes_baes/status/1213548131742208001?s=21 …https://twitter.com/bayes_baes/status/1213548131742208001 …
chad donkey from shrek 2 added,
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1. Therapy type conversations suck for anyone, even in the most familiar context 2. It's more about the person than the context/setup. 3. Agreed that superficial conversations are an important skill to learn (which is what this post is actually about)
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the person makes up the context/setup imo. earnest conversation that digs into what lies below the surface requires them to place trust on you and the context you have mutually created w/ them in my experience. i have a framework to judge this that i've been meaning to write up
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I’ll try
In the meanwhile, what happened to Dragon after you drank the potion??1 reply 0 retweets 1 like
she actually turns into a pegasus/unicorn creature, but they cut it out of the film. this is canon btw:https://scifi.stackexchange.com/questions/46648/what-happens-to-dragon-after-donkey-shrek-drank-the-happily-ever-after-potion …
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Replying to @choosy_mom @questionaware
Questionable editing choice imo. A pegasus transformation sounds v cool
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