And you see this play out in everything from Mean Girls to PTA to International Affairs on a global stage /14
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I guess you could say that this just like strategy and tactics 1001 because it sometimes seems SO OBVIOUS to me now that I’m looking for it but I both don’t remember it being so obvious earlier in my life and no one really talks about it /15
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My real question is WHY no one discusses this pattern very much in day to day to life because it seems like a pretty decent model for understanding who is trying to manipulate you or increase their own power and why they might want to do so /16
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Also once you see it it becomes easier to block or counter the actions and motivations of people trying to make it happen. What gives? Why don’t people talk about actions in these terms? I feel like I’m missing or misunderstanding something or maybe being too cynical /17
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Or maybe just tons of people implicitly get this and I’m over here having a “whoa” blindingly obvious moment? Why aren’t we analyzing the actions of political opponents openly in these terms more? Is this what polisci people sit and talk about? /end
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Replying to @liminal_warmth
For corporate, most people are aware to some degree but a) refuse to participate in power games b) lack the skillset to work at that level The catch is you have to somehow participate to gain those skills and the discourse is restricted to closed networks
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Replying to @noguchilamp @liminal_warmth
The first couple chapters of Gervais Principle seems to get at this with the sociopath-clueless-losers dynamic Once you’re able to recognize power games, it’s still unclear whether it’s ‘worth it’ to go sociopath and develop your skill at playing themhttps://www.ribbonfarm.com/2009/10/07/the-gervais-principle-or-the-office-according-to-the-office/ …
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Replying to @choosy_mom @noguchilamp
Totally depends on your goals I guess I found it to be financially “worth it” but it reaaaaally burned me out and made me dislike myself and my job
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Replying to @liminal_warmth @noguchilamp
chad donkey from shrek 2 Retweeted QC
winning the game is lucrative—but heavy lies the crown, lonely at the top, etc. best case scenario you can exit the game and cultivate a non-sociopath self again, but a lot of people don’t give themselves the option https://twitter.com/qiaochuyuan/status/1217225460737691648?s=21 …https://twitter.com/QiaochuYuan/status/1217225460737691648 …
chad donkey from shrek 2 added,
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Replying to @choosy_mom @noguchilamp
Literally what I’m in the process of doing right now I quit my stupid lucrative job after going “wtf am I doing with my life”, went back to my side biz, and am actively trying to find a better way to live
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I’m sure it’s a scary decision in the short term, but I can’t wait to see where your journey leads!
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