Gelis

The position that female ppl who only want to date female ppl and thus want to have camping music festivals that prioritize the needs and viewpoints of female ppl are ethically the same as racial supremacists who want to create ethno-states is balls out INSANE.

Would the supremacists be ethically cool if they want to create an ethno-camping-music-festival that prioritizes their needs and viewpoints, or nah?

Motivation , that’s the key here. If you can’t understand that then please be quite & mind you’re own business.

Yes, motivation. Strip away the particulars and what the OP is saying is that she wants to be able to include/exclude based on their own needs and wants without it meaning they want a lesbo/ethno/whatever total state. 100% agree. But she won't extend that courtesy to others.

What if a group of native people wanted to put on a retreat for native people only? Would you come screaming bigotry ? People should be allowed to make private groups and exclude who ever they want. The government can’t, laws can’t. But private self funded organizations can.