market dynamics are a consequence of choice the trads and movement incels don't *want* there to be a sexual marketplace, they're *mad* about there being one because they're mad about you having choices but go off sis
cchheecckk yyoouurr dduupplleexx sswwiittcchh keeping score is absolutely poison, for sure. maybe i should write a glossy book about "abundance transactions" blathering at unnecessary length about how you should think of your relationships are transactional, but generously
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*as transactional
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i basically just want people to be occasionally asking the questions "am i making sure it's still worth it for <partner>?" and "is it still worth it for me?", without resentment or guilt because it's supposed to be worth it for one or the other of you ~just because~
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(resenting a partner for not giving you what you want ~just because~ naturally being a sign that you're still using them to fill a parent-shaped hole in your life instead of having transformed that impulse into something suitable for an adult)
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