too paranoid... or not paranoid enough? 
it may be that you need to specifically negotiate or renegotiate that part of his role in the relationship is to tell you what to want
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don't get the idea that "negotiation" means awkward, annoying sit-down conversations, though. negotiation is continuous. next time he does it, slide up to him and whisper in his ear "i want you to tell me what to want", he'll get the message
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