incels don't think non-virgin incels are a thing and this triggers me
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i think this is largely true, but also partially false. many of these people have no social skills, are reclusive, and some have genuine autism. they don't know moral dynamics or have normal experience with emotional reciprocation
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these are things that normal people develop, get acquainted with, and progressively get more competent in life. a 26 year old recluse incel with severe social anxiety doesn't know where to start to even attract a "2"
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don't get me wrong, they do expected unrealistically 'mis-attractiveness' relationships. aside from their blatant misogyny and toxicity, i am sympathetic to their plight. here is why:
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i am good looking according to most people, i have a certain level of charisma, i am extroveted and talk to people well. i am 'a romantic at heart' and regularly have people 'fall in love with me' - or develop a crush - IRL or online
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yet i have not had sex in years. i don't even know how to begin getting it. i am not a virgin, but i am currently an incel. i have a host of psychological problms that inhibit me from the normal social interactions that lead to normal human experiences like sex
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of course, incels who are ugly often feel entitled to date people who are 10/10 on the attractive scale, but that doesn't really matter. these people have deeply rooted psychological problems -- ones that i share -- that are more simple than "lol go out more and date on your lvl"
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the only reason i have had any sexual or romantic partner is because of some people's willingness to overlook my instability, and my use of drugs to facilitate aggressive behaviour (benzos in particular.) without that, i'd also be an incel in a full sense
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i basically never go outside. i have IRL friends (who are less interesting my internet friends) but i pathologically avoid them for reasons i don't fully understand. i hate dating, especially gendered dating. there is more to "incelness" than having unrealistic standards
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