getting sick of "i just don't understand" as code for "i just want to hear that these people are bad" when no actually what you don't understand is that you're correct, the problem is you don't understand
sure. "i don't really understand" is a radically different statement from "i just don't understand". the latter *always* signifies "i don't want to understand, i want somebody to get hurt until they stop doing what i don't like".