I'm thinking about Valentine's Day and how it's regarded as a Thing for Women and that men are supposed to hate it and I don't understand it
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Replying to @hiygay
I'm especially thinking in relationship to that whole Steak & BJ Day thing (which always felt gross to me anyways).
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Replying to @hiygay
It's these weird reciprocity of expectations in relationships which fundamentally seem unhealthy bc it presents intimacy as negotiations.
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Replying to @hiygay
@DeerOccultism i fully believe in intimacy as negotiations & relationships as exchange; "Steak & BJ Day" is just cosmically Doing It Wrong
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Replying to @chaosprime
I like the idea of split holidays, esp how Japan has Valentine's and White Day, but the language to SBJ is rly awful yea
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@DeerOccultism
@chaosprime i don't know anything about SBJ except the name but it sounds like some really gross dude shit1 reply 0 retweets 0 likes -
Replying to @JayMKMagnum
@JayMKMagnum@chaosprime it is bc it's supposed to be "a return fowhat you did for your gf on Valentine's day"1 reply 0 retweets 0 likes -
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@DeerOccultism
@JayMKMagnum the crass, arrogated gender roles are what really makes the whole model disgusting.1 reply 0 retweets 0 likes -
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@DeerOccultism
@JayMKMagnum i may like candy hearts, steak, cute note cards, and blowjobs as much as anybody, but tell me i'm *supposed* to…1 reply 0 retweets 0 likes
@DeerOccultism @JayMKMagnum …like them because of some category you think i belong to and shit's going to get unpleasant.
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