I'm thinking about Valentine's Day and how it's regarded as a Thing for Women and that men are supposed to hate it and I don't understand it
@DeerOccultism intimacy doesn't benefit from importing the conventions of impersonal commerce into it or anything, sure.
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@DeerOccultism the point, to me, is voluntarism and respect for agency in relationships, which requires recognizing that people are there…
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@DeerOccultism …because of the benefit to them, not the benefit to you (recognizing that providing benefit to you may be a benefit to them).
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@DeerOccultism so if one wants to continue interacting with them, it behooves one to try to ensure that the benefits they get continue to…
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@DeerOccultism …outweigh the costs, rather than viewing the relationship as an entitlement as the "being loved for oneself" meme encourages.
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