@AquafarE the passive party's unexpressed but real consent. since that consent *is* unexpressed, active party can easily get the wrong idea.
@AquafarE i bet just to fuck with all of us, that relationship will wind up being emotionally positive and fulfilling for 40 years.
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@chaosprime So if Ossie or Ruby needed or wanted a fling, their feelings for each other had not changed or pushed their relationship to end. -
@AquafarE see, now that's beautiful. -
@AquafarE to have that, they had to have space for their feelings to each other to be whatever they happened to be, not a prewritten script. -
@chaosprime If he did something that made her uncomfortable, or unhappy he cared enough to check how he behaved in the relationship -
@AquafarE romantic relationships that are about mutual care, not entitlements! MADNESS! -
@chaosprime people hollering "none of y'all my friend I dont need a friend" or "I don't trust hoes". Some people are wounded. -
@AquafarE yeah. the "friendzone" thing is about being so desperate for social status that relationships that don't count for it = drain. -
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@AquafarE definitely, because they aren't built on a flimsy foundation of fairy tales about purity and fate any more. -
@chaosprime Yes and because they are together because they want to be, not because society, church, family wants them to be.
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@chaosprime their happiness with each other and happiness and contentment with their relationship, their union.Thanks. Twitter will use this to make your timeline better. UndoUndo
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@chaosprime What strikes me about their relationship is not the longetivity (as there are people who are years married & miserable) butThanks. Twitter will use this to make your timeline better. UndoUndo
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@chaosprime Ossie Davis and Ruby Dee experienced an open relationship --nothing like cheating--I cannot remember if either cheated also tho.Thanks. Twitter will use this to make your timeline better. UndoUndo
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@chaosprime And the relationships that experienced cheating but they both love and are protective of each other have a better chance ofThanks. Twitter will use this to make your timeline better. UndoUndo
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@chaosprime I have a theory that relationships that have pain and trauma due to cheating is because the person did not leave after discoveryThanks. Twitter will use this to make your timeline better. UndoUndo
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@chaosprime hahahahahahahahaaha Some people who are happily married for many years (both happy) have those kinds of secrets. Yep.Thanks. Twitter will use this to make your timeline better. UndoUndo
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