@AquafarE if you can't say yes, because you can't admit what you want, you need your partner to not need you to say yes.
@AquafarE basically, the difference between a boundary-pushing seduction, like an "i can't admit what i want" cheater needs, and a rape is…
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@AquafarE the passive party's unexpressed but real consent. since that consent *is* unexpressed, active party can easily get the wrong idea. -
@chaosprime I don't buy it because when two people are having sex because they want to, the consent is there even though not said verbally. -
@AquafarE oh, definitely. the problem is in the superficialities and the bad generalizations being drawn from them. -
@AquafarE i mean, i could be wrong but i think this is where a lot of the "blurred lines" "consent is complicated" type stuff comes from. -
@AquafarE if seduction is "make X person do what they want" and rape is "make X person do what I want", some ppl will lose the distinction. -
@chaosprime Why can't it simply be person A was horny & person B was horny and both chose to sleep with each other despite being partnered? -
@AquafarE wouldn't *that* be friggin' lovely? good reason to destroy the need to narrativize to ourselves about how we're not *really* bad. -
@chaosprime I've seen cheating being used as a tool to be an abusive spouse/partner where threats were made and made true thru it. - 17 more replies
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