@chaosprime Folks who caught as STD while cheating are less likely to alert their partner. Some are less likely to use condoms cuz...intent
@AquafarE lol, yeah. and i don't even know if i begrudge people having their deliciously guilty sex-cake and eating it too, but a couple of…
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@AquafarE …reinforcement iterations down the road, that's "no means yes" rape culture. -
@chaosprime I'm not quite sure how this fits in with rape culture. -
@AquafarE basically, the difference between a boundary-pushing seduction, like an "i can't admit what i want" cheater needs, and a rape is… -
@AquafarE the passive party's unexpressed but real consent. since that consent *is* unexpressed, active party can easily get the wrong idea. -
@chaosprime I don't buy it because when two people are having sex because they want to, the consent is there even though not said verbally. -
@AquafarE oh, definitely. the problem is in the superficialities and the bad generalizations being drawn from them. -
@AquafarE i mean, i could be wrong but i think this is where a lot of the "blurred lines" "consent is complicated" type stuff comes from. -
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@chaosprime I actually laughed when I was told that the condoms I found was because he masturbated at work and didn't want to make a mess. -
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@chaosprime I wonder if a book already exists of the elaborate lies that people who cheat have told! -
@AquafarE i would put money on two propositions: 1) yes, there is, and 2) there is plenty of room in the market for another. -
@chaosprime I don't mean long ass stories about how a person cheated on them. It's a re-telling of their own victimization. -
@AquafarE oh, yeah, screw that. no, definitely the funny stories they told when they got caught, that's the gold in them hills.
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@chaosprime It's not that I condone cheating. I just understand why it happens & I respect people who stop the torture & reply yes I did. -
@AquafarE absolutely. it takes several kinds of courage to start to process why you did it and what that means, enough to be honest about it
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