@AquafarE *nod* and then sometimes they start noticing how little room to be anything but what's expected of them they have, which tends to…
@AquafarE can't do explicit consent for the same reason can't do a condom: it would betray premeditation.
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@chaosprime "It was an accident" "I got caught up in the heat of the moment" *inserts little baby violins* -
@AquafarE lol, yeah. and i don't even know if i begrudge people having their deliciously guilty sex-cake and eating it too, but a couple of… -
@AquafarE …reinforcement iterations down the road, that's "no means yes" rape culture. -
@chaosprime I'm not quite sure how this fits in with rape culture. -
@AquafarE basically, the difference between a boundary-pushing seduction, like an "i can't admit what i want" cheater needs, and a rape is… -
@AquafarE the passive party's unexpressed but real consent. since that consent *is* unexpressed, active party can easily get the wrong idea. -
@chaosprime I don't buy it because when two people are having sex because they want to, the consent is there even though not said verbally. -
@AquafarE oh, definitely. the problem is in the superficialities and the bad generalizations being drawn from them. - 22 more replies
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