@chaosprime That! Yep! People are scared of losing the person so they don't tell them. They don't want to lose their main daily life.
@AquafarE yup. if you take on a passive role, then you get to feel like it wasn't really you who was responsible, it was the active party.
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@AquafarE can't do explicit consent for the same reason can't do a condom: it would betray premeditation. -
@chaosprime "It was an accident" "I got caught up in the heat of the moment" *inserts little baby violins* -
@AquafarE lol, yeah. and i don't even know if i begrudge people having their deliciously guilty sex-cake and eating it too, but a couple of… -
@AquafarE …reinforcement iterations down the road, that's "no means yes" rape culture. -
@chaosprime I'm not quite sure how this fits in with rape culture. -
@AquafarE basically, the difference between a boundary-pushing seduction, like an "i can't admit what i want" cheater needs, and a rape is… -
@AquafarE the passive party's unexpressed but real consent. since that consent *is* unexpressed, active party can easily get the wrong idea. -
@chaosprime I don't buy it because when two people are having sex because they want to, the consent is there even though not said verbally. - 23 more replies
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