@AquafarE *nodnod* i tend to blame the existence of default settings for a great deal
@AquafarE oh, that too, the don't-ask-don't-tell relationship, but i meant in the course of cheating itself, with one's partner in that.
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@chaosprime What you meant sounds like they tell themselves they didn't "choose" to cheat when they actually did. -
@AquafarE yup. if you take on a passive role, then you get to feel like it wasn't really you who was responsible, it was the active party. -
@AquafarE can't do explicit consent for the same reason can't do a condom: it would betray premeditation. -
@chaosprime "It was an accident" "I got caught up in the heat of the moment" *inserts little baby violins* -
@AquafarE lol, yeah. and i don't even know if i begrudge people having their deliciously guilty sex-cake and eating it too, but a couple of… -
@AquafarE …reinforcement iterations down the road, that's "no means yes" rape culture. -
@chaosprime I'm not quite sure how this fits in with rape culture. -
@AquafarE basically, the difference between a boundary-pushing seduction, like an "i can't admit what i want" cheater needs, and a rape is… - 25 more replies
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