White men cheat. Black men cheat. White women cheat. Black women cheat. Asian men cheat. Asian women cheat. EVERYBODY IS CAPABLE OF IT!
@AquafarE that and the core principle of most cultures that people should be told what to want, not find out what they want
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@chaosprime So many people are finding out what they want after the fact when other people and their lives are involved too. -
@AquafarE probably everybody has to, really, if they ever do. which is pretty brutal. not many easy choices usually to be found. -
@AquafarE i wonder if in the future everybody will have a total life explosion behind them by the time they're 35. -
@chaosprime 35 is kinda an explosive age to be. You realize new and key things about yourself and what makes you happy and what you want. -
@AquafarE *nodnod* good age for getting too tired to try to be all things to all people and cut it down to things you give one fuck about. -
@chaosprime that the things that mattered to you when you were younger changes when you get older & gain more life experience & perspective. -
@AquafarE sounds right to me. i mean, i imagine it's okay to go ahead and be concerned with the things that matter to you now. -
@AquafarE but, y'know, good not to try to make any irreversible commitments based on present emotional states, as youth are wont to do. - 2 more replies
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@chaosprime That! Yep! People are scared of losing the person so they don't tell them. They don't want to lose their main daily life. -
@AquafarE *nod* and then sometimes they start noticing how little room to be anything but what's expected of them they have, which tends to… -
@AquafarE …put the lie to vast swaths of the shiny marketing materials used to sell the model to everybody in the first place. -
@chaosprime Folks who caught as STD while cheating are less likely to alert their partner. Some are less likely to use condoms cuz...intent -
@AquafarE yeah. it's spectacularly bad what that need to conceal one's intent from oneself does to the entire concept of consent, too. -
@chaosprime Consent? ??!? how so? -
@AquafarE if you can't say yes, because you can't admit what you want, you need your partner to not need you to say yes. -
@chaosprime In other words, "Baby, don't ask me if I did or will, 'cuz I will have to say yes and you will be hurt and upset" ? - 34 more replies
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