White men cheat. Black men cheat. White women cheat. Black women cheat. Asian men cheat. Asian women cheat. EVERYBODY IS CAPABLE OF IT!
@Basseyworld @AquafarE maybe we should think about negotiating rules we actually have any interest in sticking to
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@chaosprime@Basseyworld There is so much shame surrounding wanting to pull out of those rules but wanting to stay in the relationship. -
@AquafarE@Basseyworld yeah, it's all pretty rough. i admit i don't even mess with general populace dating any more largely because i don't… -
@AquafarE@Basseyworld …want to explain myself to ppl who've assumed i'm running default settings & deal with their anger + disappointment -
@chaosprime Many people agree to monogamy because it is expected of them, our communities praise it but they are unsure if they can adhere -
@AquafarE *nodnod* i tend to blame the existence of default settings for a great deal -
@AquafarE that and the core principle of most cultures that people should be told what to want, not find out what they want -
@chaosprime So many people are finding out what they want after the fact when other people and their lives are involved too. -
@AquafarE probably everybody has to, really, if they ever do. which is pretty brutal. not many easy choices usually to be found. - 8 more replies
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@chaosprime@Basseyworld their mind.Thanks. Twitter will use this to make your timeline better. UndoUndo
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@chaosprime@Basseyworld Negotiating rules works when both people will stick to them and have an open policy on speaking up when one changesThanks. Twitter will use this to make your timeline better. UndoUndo
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