@chaosprime abusers become highly skilled at being kind/nice/sweet to non-victims
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Replying to @johnwlockwoodiv
@johnwlockwoodiv Yes. I don't mean power base cultivation, I mean behavioral improvement.1 reply 0 retweets 0 likes -
Replying to @chaosprime
@johnwlockwoodiv Moreover, it's what I said. But for some reason you pulled up a narrative that justifies burning people permanently. Hunh.1 reply 0 retweets 0 likes -
Replying to @chaosprime
@chaosprime how much time has to go by? are they just better at hiding it/making their victims too afraid to report?1 reply 0 retweets 0 likes -
Replying to @johnwlockwoodiv
@johnwlockwoodiv It seems like centering the victim's evaluation of these issues would be a positive step.1 reply 0 retweets 0 likes -
Replying to @chaosprime
@johnwlockwoodiv And maybe asking whether they wanted to have a "side" in the first place or we're all just deciding what they should want.2 replies 0 retweets 0 likes -
Replying to @chaosprime
@chaosprime u just have to ask how would i feel if it was being done to me1 reply 1 retweet 0 likes -
Replying to @johnwlockwoodiv
@johnwlockwoodiv Truly? When affective forecasting is a cognitive task that humans are almost legendarily bad at?1 reply 1 retweet 0 likes -
Replying to @chaosprime
@chaosprime on a whole, we've been pretty freaking good at it. baby learns pretty quickly finger on hot stove is bad idea1 reply 1 retweet 0 likes -
Replying to @johnwlockwoodiv
@johnwlockwoodiv That's conditioning, not affective forecasting. Read about it. We are awful at knowing how *we* will feel in a situation.1 reply 1 retweet 0 likes
@johnwlockwoodiv Much less a different human being whose life and interior state we are in no way privy to the fine details of.
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Replying to @chaosprime
@chaosprime how about we just give the benefit of the doubt to the victim instead of attacker?1 reply 1 retweet 0 likes -
Replying to @johnwlockwoodiv
@johnwlockwoodiv Sure. Don't see how that requires drawing battle lines past which go vilification rather than a demand for better behavior.3 replies 1 retweet 0 likes - 6 more replies
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