my friend is back in the dating pool and acting like a teenager and determined that the smart thing to do would be setting up a threesome with the two guys shes dating and taking them at face value when they said they wouldnt be jealous come ON sms im running an Intervention here
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Replying to @eigenrobot
let me know if your friend needs someone whose feedback in the matter could actually be relied upon
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Replying to @chaosprime
I think the issue is that at least two of them (i) are not obviously poly people and have never done anything like this, (ii) the third has probably, but (iii) the two guys are both really into my friend to the point that they unilaterally stopped dating other women
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Replying to @eigenrobot @chaosprime
my friend is very very sharp but socially probably a little oblivious, which is probably (iv) she might be able to pull it off but seems like this would require a lot of deliberate finesse and she's more of a blunt weapon :(
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Replying to @eigenrobot @chaosprime
but genuinely, if you have any perspective I'd be glad for it
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i mean, if everybody can go in with the attitude of "we're gonna be chill and try this out, and if it goes south we're gonna be chill and kind and thoughtful to each other as we work that out and nobody's gonna be pissy about their expectations", i say go for it
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Replying to @chaosprime @eigenrobot
if anybody can't say that then maybe don't
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Replying to @eigenrobot
probably should add clarity that expectations include expectations of people *not* having painful feelings, they need to all know that none of them fully understand how they're going to feel about the situation until they're in it
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Replying to @chaosprime @eigenrobot
flexibility to the situation on the ground is what matters
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flexibility includes that a finding of "no, this is not good for us" is a success, not a failure
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Replying to @chaosprime @eigenrobot
them wanting to know whose dick is bigger sounds like a red flag but it's really not, not wanting that information is, if even possible, at minimum a statistical aberration and if anything it's good that they're open to themselves and her about it
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Replying to @chaosprime
Yeah this reads true. I'll pass this on, and thanks again.
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