How does getting permission for things I don't want to do matter?
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Replying to @noop_noob
if you have permission to do anything, you have permission to casually, flippantly do things you don't really give a fuck about wanting something is a weighty emotional matter, it is self-disclosure and responsibility and vulnerability
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Replying to @chaosprime @noop_noob
Is this supposed to say more about the person submitting than the one dominating? And if so, what? Just curious...
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Replying to @chaosprime @noop_noob
One more thing! Would it be wrong to say then that former good, later bad? At least in some sense?
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Replying to @hijaxe @noop_noob
yeah, someone actually doing the latter is less acting as a submissive in the usual sense and more enacting the rite of Chöd. that isn't necessarily bad, but treating someone who's doing one as if they were doing the other will end in tears for someone
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the social paradigm demands that we treat a manifest impulse to self-destruction as bad, of course, since god fucking forbid that we trust anybody to manage their self sufficiently that we'd suppose that if they want to destroy it they have good reasons
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I think it comes down to social debts. If we didn't stigmatize people self terminating then there'd be no way to police against people defaulting on various forms of debts by simply closing the account.
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well that's the thing, we keep interpreting someone trying to destroy their self as trying to terminate their tragic meat husk's vital functions. hell, the people doing it do that. and it's not the same at all
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I clearly misinterpreted that tweet as it related to degrees of self destruction.
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it's good though because that's how our entire cultural milieu entangles these degrees. and when i think about it it's obvious that most people acting "self-destructively" are struggling for ego death, not suicide, but not even they know it
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Replying to @chaosprime @bronzebarbarian and
Chaos Retweeted Chaos
goes to what i was saying before reallyhttps://twitter.com/chaosprime/status/1181047246357499904 …
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Ahh! Yeah. Now I'm caught up. Still agree, disregard my moment of ignorant tangentism!
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