you don't understand submissives until you understand the difference between "you can do anything you want to me" and "you can do anything to me"
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Replying to @noop_noob
the former gives you permission to do a thing if and only if you want it
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Replying to @chaosprime
How does getting permission for things I don't want to do matter?
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Replying to @noop_noob
if you have permission to do anything, you have permission to casually, flippantly do things you don't really give a fuck about wanting something is a weighty emotional matter, it is self-disclosure and responsibility and vulnerability
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Replying to @chaosprime @noop_noob
Is this supposed to say more about the person submitting than the one dominating? And if so, what? Just curious...
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Replying to @chaosprime @noop_noob
One more thing! Would it be wrong to say then that former good, later bad? At least in some sense?
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Replying to @hijaxe @noop_noob
yeah, someone actually doing the latter is less acting as a submissive in the usual sense and more enacting the rite of Chöd. that isn't necessarily bad, but treating someone who's doing one as if they were doing the other will end in tears for someone
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Replying to @chaosprime @noop_noob
Insightful and I've never heard of such a rite, that's wild dude
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oh yeah it's quality shit. here, read this and its companion article it'll point you tohttps://vividness.live/2012/08/22/charnel-ground/ …
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