whose thumb would you rather live under, A) someone very controlling who enforces compliance by physical violence, or B) someone very controlling who enforces compliance by holding your ability to consider yourself a good person hostage?
we can grant for purposes of the question that your positive self-regard, though it will shatter at least once, will in the absence of direct external control adapt to the situation, so you probably still chose the right option for your priorities
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