what does the former look like?
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tending toward "not nice"
"everyone is different" is EXTREMELY important here but features commonly useful would i think include a safe space for hostility, trust that the interaction exists on its own terms rather than being socially overdetermined, a frank sort of demeanor - 8 more replies
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the former is more like "if you don't do what i want that makes you a bad person" and the latter is more like "if you don't do what i want you'll get hit"
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what does kindness to someone stuck with both in a good-cop-bad-cop fashion look like?
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Sympathy for malignant narcissists is my middle name But seriously, I think this was both validating and kind of a wake up for me. Hostility doesn’t need a safe space.
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doesn't it, though? if in your interaction it is unsafe to feel or display anger, what kind of person are you interacting with?
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