What kind of culture is that lmao
that just sounds like people want to be unfeeling but don’t want the burden of being labeled as unfeeling
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She is specifying consequences so that’s not just a feeling anymore the situation has accelerated o.o also how to objectively measure of her reaction to it is measured. Usually at the point in the conversation both parties need to cool off =|
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Imo conversations should not get to this point — things should be resolved when you are discussing the consequences of action X and the feeling it is evoking but maybe that’s too rosy a view
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well, it's a kind of "giveaway marker", kind of like when someone draws a gun at you that usually means they don't like you a lot (in humans)
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NOT NECESSARILY
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If she says ‘I’m going to breakup with you over it’ thats Brinksmanship but it could also be that she has no idea how to handle the situation and is ‘flight’ response. Meaning both parties need to sit down and express their fears and worries and get over them.
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If you don’t do that and she just says if you don’t do what I want I will destroy you that’s controlling behavior
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