sexual preferences are goopy and context-dependent and etc etc if you want satisfaction and self-knowledge, keep your sexual identity small and personal numinous identity vs olympic identity
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Replying to @eigenrobot
I still don't know what a 'demi' is other than 'what we used to call a romantic' and tbh i'm not gonna police ppl's identities but it does not seem like a super useful one to me
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demisexuality is a way of pretending that the single most praised and rewarded sexual behavior pattern in our culture is oppressed because Chad and Stacy like casual hookups
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to be fair, demisexuality makes sense as a dialectical move (read: countersignal) if you're looking at young-urban-liberal areas. consider that much praise for monogamy inherits from Christian social norms, which are flailing esp in cities...
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what I don't really understand is the appeal in continuing to promote it, when it's so unsustainable and everyone likes orgasms and novel partners.
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monogamous partners actually have more sex
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this, uh, does not match up to what the kids today are calling "My Lived Experience" but I will totes look at cites
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its true though
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Isn’t it heavily mediated on sex drives
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Replying to @sm0b0t @eigenrobot and
It’s potentially true that the less sexual tend to be more monogamous lol
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there's also a possible incentive for the more sexual to lock down a steady low-risk supply
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Replying to @danlistensto @eigenrobot and
is the antidote to Sexual Marxism... Sexual Mutualism?
i wish it didn't sound so stupid because i actually think it is1 reply 0 retweets 3 likes - 15 more replies
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