Queer community, we have to come up with a better word than "niblings" to be a gender neutral replacement for "nieces and nephews." I need a word that doesn't make me want to die. I need a word that doesn't sound like it's going to glomp me uwu. I'm a serious adult, damn you
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The only thing the "export as nft" button in Photoshop should do is delete the file you're working on and then delete all other files on your computer
The Lavender Clinic is the ONLY clinic in the state of Hawaii for the majority of trans and non-binary youth to receive gender-affirming care, and it is on the verge of closing!!!! Donation link below, trans care for young people is needed now more than ever!
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Completely obsessed with the photos this ebay seller has taken of these dental mannequins
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"on the gender spectrum"
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Damn can't believe she fell off a cliff in the middle of delivering this quote
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One time I was doing an art workshop with kids and I asked, "do you think art can be evil?" And they all agreed that no, art is good, until one girl thoughtfully asked, "but what if someone drew something REALLY bad, like......... a skull"
This is mostly inside baseball for trans people but please know that you CANNOT ASSUME you are infertile just because you are on HRT. Unless you have gotten a surgery that deliberately renders you infertile, you literally do not know your fertility status. Do not assume!!
You supported SESTA/FOSTA
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The thing about being a trans woman is that there's literally nothing you can do to keep scary people from hating you and wanting you to die. You might as well be a completely authentic freak pervert, because no matter how polite and withdrawn you are they will hate you anyway.
Me: I'm depressed
My therapist:
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The phrase "the trans question" is a totally normal way to characterize a group of highly marginalized people who are asking for medical care and civil rights
I really don't care what caused my transness. I've had a lot of trauma in my life, and whether it was caused by my transness, concurrent with my transness, or the cause of my transness is impossible to say. It doesn't matter. I'm trans now and I deserve to have power over my body
As a Transsexual Woman, I know that if I ever succeed at something, there's the potential for a federal law or international ruling preventing all future trans women from doing that thing ever again.
You can't prevent transness, you can only impede it. You can hurt a trans person until they pretend to be cis. But you can't erase the fact that they're trans.
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Mom, dad... I'm on the gender spectrum. So are you I guess. We all are. I don't know why I'm telling you this way.
Being in queer community means being willing to fight for people you can't stand, and accepting that you're never more than one degree removed from someone who can't stand you either.
The really fun thing about transphobes in 2021 is that they all know that conversion therapy has bad connotations, so they've just learned to say "I don't believe in conversion therapy, I believe in counseling children towards their true gender and protecting them from ideology"
"t women dot com"
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*optimistic voice* oh I wonder if something really good has happened
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I'm just going to start calling everyone "you there, boy," like the popular misquote of the end of A Christmas Carol
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I know multiple trans women who have gotten partners pregnant even after being on hormones for years, and I know trans men who have gotten pregnant despite being on T for years. Protect yourself! HRT on its own is not effective birth control!
As a trans woman, the word "woman" should only be used to refer to me and people like me. I add the "trans" before it as a vulgar display of wealth, but it's not necessary. If you're talking about female humans with wombs I insist that you use the phrase "original-sin havers"
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I'm living my best life. I surround myself with powerful women, both cis and trans. I move through the world as a woman, and do things women do and go places women go. You literally cannot stop me. I'm sorry you think this somehow injures you. Talk to a therapist.
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It's a special kind of evil to actively work to make sex workers' lives worse and then capitalize shamelessly off their aesthetics.
I'm the guy who drives a tank in evangelion. I know my bullets don't affect the angels but I look cool shooting them and I'm honestly excited to flip over and explode in a few seconds
Thinking about Don Bluth's younger brother Toby Bluth, who worked for Disney and also drew beautiful twinks getting destroyed
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The people I respect the most in our community are the fucking freaks who are extremely straightforward about who and what they are, and what they're into. No matter how respectable you try to be, it won't stop you from getting harassed or filmed in a public bathroom
I'm grateful for trans people whose ways of expressing their own transness are completely different than my own. There are infinite ways to be trans. Transness is about self-determination. Our community's diversity is its strength.
Some of my friends have detransitioned, and my respect and love for them is enormous. That being said, if they ever decided to use their own experience as a weapon against trans people, advocating for conversion therapy and suicide, they would become my enemies.
This trans day of visibility, recommit to loving and supporting trans people. We need material support now more than ever. Good thoughts are not enough. Transphobes have made our bodies hyper-visible and politicized our children. Show us unequivocal support, because we need it.
I love having a body that ruins family holidays and is an inappropriate topic for dinner table conversation. It's honestly cool as hell
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That's a good point, I'm going to start using twink to mean gender neutral niece/nephew
The deliberate and cruel mistreatment of trans people should make you murderously angry. Trans people and their allies cannot afford to be polite or patient. Our lives, and our children's lives, are at stake.
I'm 32 today ❤️
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And for all the hundreds on hundreds of terf comments that pile up under my or anyone else's posts, none of those losers can take away the simple joy of an older woman pissing down my throat. I'm living my best life! Die mad, you little nothings.
Thank you god for messy, difficult, traumatized, hard-to-love trans people. Every single one of us deserves the best of the best.
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Like, most of the transphobes who respond to my tweets think that I couldn't possibly have intelligent opinions about sexual wellness or boundaries because I work in porn! I have nothing to say to these people. I'm light years ahead of them. There's no point.
I gave a 20-minute talk at (which is a professional conference for illustrators, cartoonists, editors, and art directors) titled, "A High Resolution Photograph of a Naked Transsexual Woman." Since the talk wasn't recorded, I'll summarize it here. CW: nudity.
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Here's my submission for "Tony's Pick" - they asked for my most creative boardslide or lipslide! I hope he picks me!
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Feel free to vote for me if you think it would be funny to see me meet Tony Hawk pic.twitter.com/rafbmtlWbb
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Thank you God for the features that make me look trans, and for my ever-changing body. My transness is a prayer for something better. My transness is my faith in myself.
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Why do people on tinder talk like they're in a BioWare game
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Sincerely and from the bottom of my heart, if you are a cis person who contributed to this nightmare by positioning transness as a concept to be debated, building your career on the bodies of dead children, you deserve every bad thing that can possibly happen to you.
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Greg Abbot has officially directed Family and Protective Services to begin investigating all trans children in Texas and prosecuting their parents as child abusers.
He has also instructed all teachers, doctors, and caregivers to begin reporting any trans students they see.
Honestly my life as a trans person became easier when I accepted that some people are just cruel. There's nothing magical that I can say to win them over to the side of not being cruel. They understand what they're doing and they enjoy it.
As someone who's been naked at Wi Spa in the women's bathing area, if someone has a body that you find displeasing aesthetically I recommend not staring at it
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I love you but I do think that's the weed talking
When I die, I ask that my remains blink a few times and then disappear to optimize onscreen polygon count
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I'd call it stolen valor but it's not as if Amy Schumer has any problem with stealing 💅
This poem from a 90s piss fetish magazine reads like a Beastie Boys song
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Transness is a prayer for something better. Transness means believing in a better world.
they/them is not a default or neutral pronoun, and using it on someone it doesn't apply to is misgendering that person just as much as using "he" or "she" would be.
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An attempt to prevent a child from expressing their transness is an attempt to irreparably harm that child.
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Trans people deserve every good thing. Being trans is a prayer for and belief in something better.
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It's nice of you to all keep making suggestions but 99% of them are like "hm what about 'nipples?'"
It's trans day of remembrance. I lost friends this year, I know everyone did. Every trans suicide, every trans person who dies because of improper access to medical care, every trans person who is improperly diagnosed and ignored by doctors... they were all murdered by the state.
HA HA HA
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Cool grift to publish article after article suggesting that naïve children are being pushed into transgenderism by overzealous doctors and an out-of-control trans lobby, but then when legislation is introduced to block trans medical care say "I was just providing nuance"
There are queer people who have hurt me terribly and there are queer people I would rather break my own fingers than talk to again, but they still deserve love, friendship, stability, housing, community, and work. No queer is bad enough for me to support their destruction.
As individual queer people, our lives need to burn even brighter, more angrily, more violently. There's nothing to be gained by working within conservative systems, or by being polite or quiet. Every aspect of bodily and sexual autonomy is under attack. It's time to attack back.
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Here's the link, please donate and share!
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Porn is speech! Porn is expression! Forbidding pornography is censorship that disproportionately targets queer people.
I told my dentist that I do porn and she took a deep breath and said, "I only have one thing to say to that.... you NEED to fix your pedicure because right now, I would NOT pay for those feet."
Big news ladies
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If you crave "LGBTQIA+ representation" you don't have to suck Disney's dick for crumbs. Just buy something from a queer person directly.
Whenever I get misgendered I have to wonder... WHO is this hypothetical cis man with big titties who looks exactly like me, and WHY have I never met him
Being trans is the best thing that ever happened to me
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Andrea Natalie's comics hold up. These are from 1992!
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I GOT THIS ANONYMOUS SUBMISSION ... COULD IT BE THE ACTUAL BEASTIE BOYS
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Things are only going to keep getting worse for trans people, especially those who are at the intersection of multiple marginalized identities. Protect and fight for the trans people in your life. We need each other now more than ever.
Ultimately, "passing" is a fake concept that can only make you feel terrible. I get misgendered all the time, still! I'm very hot! These things aren't in conflict and I really don't have any control over strangers' weird perceptions of my body
The headline: In His Netflix Special "Forced To Shut Up," Jerfis Leon Ballet Dances On A Comedy Tightrope, Dodging Tomatoes Thrown By The Oversensitive
Sample joke: Trans women... [pause for laughter] now I know I shouldn't say this but that's a dude who should die
"If the tranny doesn't feel loved, she will leave." Words to live by.
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The best part of being an influential trans woman is knowing that, after I'm dead, a bunch of people who would have hated me IRL will make completely toothless YA cartoon books about my sanitized achievements
Everyone doing retrospectives on twitter discourse is neglecting my favorite one: that it's unacceptable to have nonconsensual, private fantasies about another person, including dreams
The idea that creators have a moral duty to hide all nudity/sex behind a paywall because 'minors might see' is fucked. Yes, minors might see. So fucking what.
Giving money directly to trans people in need is more effective than voting will ever be in this broken, bullshit country.
Why does my optometrist need to know my assigned sex at birth
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"how dare you call me a terf I love trans people, specifically the ones who hate themselves and don't express their transness in any way and don't get mad when I call them by the wrong pronoun and agree that they aren't safe to be around children"
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We have nothing to lose. Fuck in the streets. Be the evil pervert that transphobes make you out to be. Live with integrity and passion. And fight to the death.
I've been told by the organizers of the competition that all of my previous photos were considered obscene and inappropriate, and that I need to seriously tone it down if I want to stay in the running. This is frustrating, but I'm more dedicated to winning than ever now!
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Any platform that claims to value free speech while simultaneously banning pornography is completely hypocritical.
I recently found out that I've been accepted into the artist-in-residence program starting this fall! It's been a dream of mine for years, ever since I first visited the Tom of Finland house in Los Angeles. I'm so honored 😭❤️
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I don't care what percentage of the population thinks I should be barred from women's spaces... whether it's 1% or 99%, I am going to disobey you. I'm a woman and I'm living a woman's life. Being in the majority does not make your beliefs correct or ethical.
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It's kind of hard to understand how "men are naturally better at literally everything" is the feminist + science-based perspective but who knows... my hormone-addled estrogenated brain probably isn't smart enough to figure that out. I'll need to ask a man about it later.
If you use they/them pronouns to refer to me, you're misgendering me, just like you would be if you said "he." You're not half-right or closer to right by using "they." Getting misgendered isn't a *big* deal, it's something I live with every day, but "they" isn't somehow better.
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"I don't want to prevent trans people from having access to medical care, I've just written multiple articles and books about how having access to medical care is actually harmful to them and wouldn't it be better if they didn't have it?? Hypothetically, as a thought experiment?"
In the shadow of so much pain and death, it feels more important than ever to take pleasure in the things that make us happy. We're trans, and we're alive.
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Anyway... if seeing different kinds of naked bodies at a communal bath will traumatize you, stay home.
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Suggesting that one cause would be more respectable than another is terf bullshit. I refuse to be put in a position where I have to create an all-encompassing theory of why I am the way I am. That is not a reasonable thing to ask a person. I just am this way.