Thought provoked by LRT, and maybe this isn’t cool, that’s why I’m bringing it up, to feel out my own thoughts on it: I don’t think of LGBT+ folks who are comfortable w/the status quo as “queer.” Queer to me suggests a political attitude about life in the world as an LGBT+ person
I think you are misinterpreting. I’m talking about the political ideology a person actually holds, not anything performative. But if you think Pete Buttigieg is queer, then you’re not misinterpretating, and we disagree.