Can't address that - and a lot of the sexual harassment stuff - without addressing women's sexual agency. A woman who is expected to say "No" the first few times won't be believed if she says "No". Women need to be able to say "Yes" without shame in order to credibly say "No".
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We are, to our detriment, socialized to believe that men "get" (chase after, obtain) sex whilst women "give" (acquiesce to, relinquish) sex.
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That natrative is old school. Luckily younger generations feel differently. And as they take on roles in film, in business, marketing etc we slowly see the transition. Just look back 40-50 years.
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But if a woman initiates or takes charge she runs the risk of being called a slut (or pick your favorite demeaning term). We can’t be virgins and dominatrixes at the same time. Both sexes need to talk openly with each other more.
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I am also a woman and I feel that there is an expectation on men these days to be jack o,f all trades master of none. Father husband, provider, cleaner, cook, etc. When you have to wear so many hats you are setting yourself up to fail.
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I don't know, I feel the rush when I absolutely CRUSH all of the above. Fail my butt, I am going to own it all and look great while doing it (or at least that is what I try to do). If I don't live up to my high expectations it's all good fam, I take a knee and go right back in.
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But, there are men who will react negatively if a woman is assertive.
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Yes, some men will think," is she like this with everyone?"
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Not just sex but relationships in general. Guys are expected to ask the girl out, make the first move, pay for all the meals, etc.
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That’s sounds great to me... until you also want to make all the rules, because you paid for everything. Then I’m not happy anymore.
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Who said anything about making all the rules? Lol hopefully you were just kidding there
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Quite true. It *is* rather annoying that so many women think a man has to *make* them climax. Well, what's *she* doing there then?
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Lol you say that but most girls starfish and talk about how bad the man was at sex.
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Men are in charge of sex?
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Wait, sex is a TWO-person job??
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Not just sex but nearly all aspects of dating and relationships pre-marriage seem to hinge on what the guy is willing to do or say. Its nerve wracking especially in a time where any breath I take can be interpreted as sexist.
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Not necessarily...
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“Don't knock masturbation. It's sex with someone you love.” Woody Allen
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