I do not believe trans activism has destroyed the lesbian community. I do believe there are far too many binary arguments in a world of complexity.
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That's not what I asked, no offense. Would you be attracted to a man who looked like that? Do you support those who would tell you to kill yourself if you weren't? Would you consider a relationship between yourself and such a man gay or not?
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You’re asking the wrong man. I was married to a woman for five years. I find some women sexually attractive but I haven’t slept with any since I was married. So perhaps I don’t have the right perspective. I’m not stating hard & fast positions. I’m debating & trying to understand.
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That's fair - I think us bi folk need to understand het and homo people. Not everyone can date a person of a different sex, and they've fought for decades (centuries, even!) to be able to live their lives in peace. We've fought alongside them - betraying them is unforgivable.
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I'm serious about the death threats thing, btw. I've seen them sent to les friends both specific and in general, and I've gotten them myself. Social pressure on that is despicable.
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Me? Uh, okay? I'd rather you discuss this with us and find a solution, but you do you.
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She means Brian. He's being weasely and said some ridiculous things about a hetero couple being gay and lesbians that like dick earlier.
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That's fair! I'm glad it's not me! I wish he'd just answer the question. It's not like I'm not offering a compromise here - inventing new words for those who are attracted to someone's 'gender identity'. It's just not sexual orientation. Conflating the two = gays are terfs.
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Precisely! That's the best solution. The problem is the insistence that trans people *are* their gender identity, down to their sex. That they are what they identify as, not that they're something identifying with something else.
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Yep! Plus, it's common knowledge that some lesbians like very butch women - which in some cases includes trans men (because gen ID is very frequently unknown). That fixes some of that. Still imperfect, but less bad, hopefully.
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Whether you realize it or not; you are. You have said it is possible for a homosexual female to be attracted to a heterosexual male. Do you wish to clarify this?
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