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To the overachievers out there: what drives you?
  • I like to win
    26.9%
  • Not letting ppl down
    31.2%
  • I'm underrated
    17.6%
  • Other/write-in option
    24.3%
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the short version: afraid I’m the lazy fuckup I was always told I was; constantly trying to achieve to prove I’m not; inevitably burning out; “proving” to myself that I can’t hack it, and must be a lazy fuckup.
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and unfortunately the metaphor is pretty apt: by one’s mid-30s there is a LOT of stack to unwind if one wants to escape the loop and continue.
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