(Curious inverse note here too: absolutely unintentionally -- just due to Gendery Trained Under-Performance of Friendliness Stuff plus eg. some shyness on my part, or use of an icon rather than my face -- I often get feedback that I come across as "cold, jaded, disaffected")
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I often wonder if the use of an icon does that for me too! Also if it makes me seem less like a real person.
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folks are often surprised that I am not a cat IRL