treat that delusion like it's real. "Maybe they'd be better if someone DID fuck them?" No, wrong. They'd be miserable even if someone did (though mostly no one would, because misery and loathing of women are, uh, generally turn-offs). I think a big problem these guys have is
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they're deeply unhappy for personal reasons, and they fixating on not getting any sex precisely because they can't get any; if they thought they were unhappy because of their jobs, for instance, they might change jobs. They could move if they thought it was their city, or
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I dunno get a fucking hobby or something. They pick "I can't get laid" because it's a test that'll never come to pass; by choosing a cause for their unhappiness that is completely outside their control, they're absolved from having to do anything about, and can just wallow
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in a kind of self-pity that increasingly warps them away from being able to live in society. This isn't a problem that can be solved by women being nicer to them; I don't know what will solve it, but women not liking them isn't the *cause* of their unhappiness, so.
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Obviously misogyny is a huge part of this, but there are a lot of misogynists and they don't all turn into incels; I think the structure of patriarchy is what causes these guys to pick "it's the women's fault" as the external cause of their unhappiness, rather than, I dunno, God
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So miserable that upping their game doesn't occur to them.
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Upping their game might lead to them actually getting laid, and that would explode the idea that lack of sex was ever the real source of their misery. They know this, deep down, which is why they never up their game.
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