Let’s develop a norm of it being acceptable to say “no” to an invite for the simple reason that you are feeling introverted that day/week I do it fairly frequently, but it still feels quite rude. But it certainly seems better than a lie or attending and not wanting to be there
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"thanks! i've got plans" isn't a lie, even if your plan is to do literally anything else
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Yeah. When people ask if I’m free for an 8AM call I say I have a conflict. That conflict is sleeping
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The thing about obvious white lies as the norm is it’s a per-person currency you can run out of, which is what I think people calling for an explicit norm actually want to change. Sometimes people force you to burn thru your excuse budget and you’re forced to make a harder choice
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