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I realised that I have undergone more than 20 surgeries since I was born and more than 10 interviews. Most of them turned out to go well but I would have been a less stressed and probably happier person without them.
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Thanks for your understanding, your support and for sharing your experiences Indeed, our lives do provide us with a set of different perspectives
Similar I would have been happier and less stressed without the suffering. But it’s outside our control. We definitely have the physical and psychological scars. But it also forces one to develop insights that only someone with lived experience can develop.