ogbanje (they/them) 
DEAR SENTHURAN, THE DEATH OF VIVEK OJI, PET, FRESHWATER, CW: EVERYTHING (2022), YOU MADE A FOOL OF DEATH WITH YOUR BEAUTY (2022)
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Elle: *avoids using any pronouns for me whatsoever because God forbid they acknowledge a nonconforming gender*
My mentions: 'Queens! Sistahs! Women! Ladies!'
Me: 
I honestly don't bother getting excited about any awards, accolades, etc anymore because they almost always come with shit like this. Like, hey, you're not cis? Wonderful, so you're going to pay the cost of that with every good thing. Yay! Have fun. Your bad for existing.
If your style guide doesn't respect people's pronouns, then your style guide is <insert drumroll here> transphobic! Gasp. Stop being so precious about your shit and catch up to the actual world you're publishing in.
Grateful to the people who affirm and acknowledge who/what I am 
You are a weight of good on a scale balancing a world that reminds me I shouldn't be here. And to the few who actually step in as intercessors—that's how to be an ally 
I thought that was...odd.
AGH THIS
I noticed that a lot with major publications and people who don’t just use he or she and every time it makes my eyes roll back into my skull
I am so sorry this happened to you. I did notice they avoided using any pronouns for you in the article, which to me shows they were being cowards. You just keep on being you, because you are pretty great ! 
But your pronouns are in the very first line of your bio. So, I ...pic.twitter.com/BqqCkCtJ4o
Ugh. I’m sorry. That’s not right.
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