1- I trust that you are not lying; that you believe that what you are saying is true (honesty)
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2- I trust that you have the power over yourself and/or others to fulfil the promises you made (dependability)
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3- Since words are vague, I trust that given different situations and interpretations you will keep the spirit of your promises (integrity)
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4- With or without promises, I believe you will try to act in my best interests (love)
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5- I believe that you have the desire AND power to act in my best interests (compassion)
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This came from thinking about relationships, but I think one of the problems with political/economic systems is that we never really get past level 2 (dependability). And we never expect to be able to.
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Replying to @autotrnslucence
You missed groundedness: you know your own interests and values to the degree that when you commit to something it's for clear and durable reasons; seehttps://medium.com/@edelwax/is-anything-worth-maximizing-d11e648eb56f …
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Hmm, being based strongly in clear values seems directly related to dependability; it's necessary but not sufficient, in that I need to know not only that your values are strong but also that they include keeping your related commitments.
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There is also an issue of how dependable the actual values are - I have one friend who is highly neurotic and another who is low neuroticism and their values (spontaneous boundary-pushing vs independent stability) are both tightly held but lead to different lvls of dependability.
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Replying to @autotrnslucence
In both of your replies you're using the word values to mean goals. I wouldn't call any of these things values. Goal alignment is perhaps a kind of dependability. Values clarity isn't.
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With the stability example - this person both wants their life to be stable and values being a stable person to others. Maybe it could be better phrased as independence, but I’m not sure what you mean by values if this isn’t a value? (And yes I’ve read IAWM)
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