This social justice man texted me out of the blue recently. No too surprising; known one another for years and say hi from time to time.
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Not to say we don't keep in touch in Spanish sometimes, too. But this? Esto es mierda.
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And just LOOK at what he wrote. "Forgive me." Thats a directive. It's not an ask. It's not an admission of fuckery. It's a command.
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Followed by, "I didn't want to offend you." Which is just a way to de-center the consequences of his words. And re-center his intent.
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Then he just HAS to add, "You look real pretty," which only emphasizes his gaze.
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Anyway, I'm kinda livid. I've dealt with shit like this my whole life. Only more recently have I been making these aggressions more public.
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I'm also wondering what, if anything, I do next? Definitely not reaching out to him again.
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Oh shit. Of course he follows me on Twitter. Hai. You're lucky I'm not including your handle.
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He holds a pretty major position in a pretty major advocacy organization. If I tweeted the name of it, you'd have heard of it.
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It's also not the the worse of all of harassment, though. Not at all. And he is Latino. I don't want to put his livelihood in jeopardy.
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I don't even know who I'm tweeting all of this for.
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Maybe it's or me. I know I found power in words, even if those words point out disempowerment.
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Maybe it's for every person (almost all women) who've felt harassed by social justice men and never heard a proper apology for it.
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Maybe it's for every social justice man who need to take a thousand seats. And write a thousand apologies.
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OMG OMG OMG Same social justice man just sent me new messages asking I donate to his fundraiser for a trip abroad. What in the entire....
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