uhm i don't know what im doing but sometimes when i saw some pretty girls my body feel some type of stuff like the same feeling when i saw some boys does that mean im pan or bi? im just curious...
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I was told pan is basically if bi and demi had a PowerPuff colored baby (essentially) that was automatically more enby inclusive than bi was generally thought to be, mostly because emotional attachment is more important than gender. So if you only like 2 genders, probs bi?
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Bi doesn't mean that you only like two genders. Bi people themselves can be nb. General difference is that bi people see the gender of s person as a part of what affects their attraction, while pan people do not. For example, many bi people (me included) say that ---
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--- attraction to guys can feel differently compared to attraction to girls. Not stronger/weaker but just... different. Or maybe you can have a clear preference for a certain gender. All in all, gender just plays some role in this. While for pan people this isn't really a factor
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I've been trying to understand the difference between bi and pan for a long time, and now I understand it tHANK YOU
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Happy to help!! Also identifying as any of these terms just because one of them feels like the right one/the other one makes you uncomfortable for whatever reason is totally valid. Many people don't look at the nuances and just use the one they personally prefer.
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Thank you all for this. Like Sandra I’ve been trying to understand the difference forever. I think it’s finally making sense. I didn’t realize how many characters I write that would identify as pan. Hope you all have a great day :)
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Thanks a lot,
@saj_who!
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I was 24. Married with a 2yo. Went to a friends party with hubby. Ended up kissing friend's, best friend. I liked it. A LOT. Kissed her a few more times after that. Then got pregnant with bub no. 2 and that was it. It was honestly another 5 or 6 yrs later that I realised I'm bi.
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It actually hit me hard because I'd never been with a woman before or since due to being with hubby since I was 16. It was a shock but seemed to fit. Of course being married I'm cis passing and don't feel like I belong so I'm just hanging out in limbo.
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I feel the same way! I'm bi & female, married to the (male) love of my life, I love my marriage and our family and wouldn't change a thing...but I feel like a fraud, I'm so visibly vanilla and heteronormative. We are valid!!
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Same. We are here!
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We are valid.
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When I was 14, my drama teacher showed us the 1968 version of Romeo and Juliet and the from the first time Olivia Hussy spoke I was blushing. After the bedroom scene I had to excuse myself from the class and go outside to catch my breath. I never looked back.

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"Catch your breath huh?"
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Dont know the meaning of the word


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That Juliet is stunning indeed. I always need to catch my breath when I see Aishwaraya Rai ;>
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Lmao, same but it was my mom saying, “Oh, come on, everyone has thought about kissing other women! That doesn’t mean you should act on it!”
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