Just for the record about patriarchy and kink and stuff - a response to a convo with someone but not intended as a subtweet
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Replying to @BootlegGirl
This kinda relates to dating women too to be honest but esp men I'm not interested in fixing someone and making them a good feminist
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Replying to @BootlegGirl
Like if I have to accommodate a guy "improving" himself by learning to be attracted to women in a way that appears more progressive?
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Replying to @BootlegGirl
Not interested. I'm not saying it's a bad thing, maybe that's even the right thing to do.
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Replying to @BootlegGirl
But if a guy is trying not to objectify me so as to treat me better, it hurts bc I feel cheated of what other girls get.
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Replying to @BootlegGirl
But like I've had that a few times from guys who are super nice and attracted to me but they emphasize how not patriarchal their attraction
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Replying to @BootlegGirl
is, and I don't think ppl realize how esp for a trans girl that's alienating bc it's like
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Almost all cis women have had the experience of being validated for being sex objects for men and it's shitty in tons of ways
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But to me at least "I see you 100% as an equal, you're absolutely not just tits and ass bc I'm a good male" is so alienating
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Replying to @BootlegGirl
And the fact that most men who are attracted to me feel they have to be attracted to me in a "non threatening" way feels very sad to me
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@BootlegGirl this shit is complicated and is why open negotiation is good
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