A lot of times when "They chose X over the relationship?!" the X doesn't matter X could be anything, X could be NOTHING They didn't want the relationship, the relationship was a negative, the actual desire was to get out The X is a psychological prop to avoid admitting thishttps://twitter.com/DrNerdLove/status/1370124503779569670 …
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Ultimately you end up pushed to the brink and just screaming "I don't know - I'd rather do nothing! Anything! I'd rather die!" and then you're the unreasonable one Big shitty boss "Don't bring me problems if you don't have solutions" energy
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The big problem being that thinking of viable alternatives and making the case for them being truly viable is HARD, it takes a lot of mental and emotional labor, and you can't do it if you're already using all your energy surviving a current life that you hate
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