A lot of times when "They chose X over the relationship?!" the X doesn't matter X could be anything, X could be NOTHING They didn't want the relationship, the relationship was a negative, the actual desire was to get out The X is a psychological prop to avoid admitting thishttps://twitter.com/DrNerdLove/status/1370124503779569670 …
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It's just interesting how many layers of lying to themselves and each other pile up in situations like this, the shit that builds up when you're just not allowing yourself to say you're unhappy
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I mean, I am guessing this happens a LOT, especially with people who avoid uncomfortable conversations or negative emotions...
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Having known a person who retreated into games to deal with a shitty work life, getting hassled to stop gaming suddenly moves a partner into "part of the problem" territory. You pull a "me or your one coping mechanism" on someone, and they're almost always gonna ditch you.
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